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The Art of Disagreeing

How to Keep Calm and Stay Friends in Hard Conversations

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About this book

In this positive and practical book, Gavin Ortlund looks to the Scriptures to discover a way in which to disagree with others that leads to greater understanding, peace, and love—and that shows a watching world something of Jesus.

This is a much-needed message in a society that is losing the ability to disagree well. Whether over politics, religion, or culture, or the more everyday issues of normal life, points of view tend to be held with a polarizing intensity. Too often we view disagreements as must-win contests or simply do our best to avoid them altogether.

Looking to Jesus’ example of courage and kindness, readers will be given a framework for engaging in ...

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Specifications

Contributors:
Gavin Ortlund
ISBN:
9781802541403
Format:
Paperback
First published:
February 2025
Dimensions:
5.1" x 7.8" x 0.3"
Weight:
4.06 oz
Print size:
11.0pt
Language:
English
Pages:
96
Publisher:
The Good Book Company

Contents

Introduction: Why Disagreement Is Difficult

  1. Kindness
  2. Courage
  3. Listening
  4. Persuasion
  5. Love


Endorsements

Culture wars, political polarization, and the toxic climate of social media are making it harder than ever for Christians to have conflictual conversations that build up relationships rather than tearing them down. Gavin Ortlund rightly believes that it is possible for us to disagree without being disagreeable. In The Art of Disagreement—a book blessedly short enough to read before your next hard conversation—Ortlund offers both spiritual encouragement and practical guidance for listening well, speaking wisely, and honoring God whenever we disagree.

Dr Philip G. Ryken President, Wheaton College

Gavin is one of the best models of thoughtful, gracious, and healthy disagreement that I know. In this timely book, he shows us how we can learn from, listen to, persuade, and love one another, with a warmth and wisdom that we can all learn from.

Andrew Wilson Teaching Pastor, King's Church London; Author, God of All Things

With scandals rocking the Christian world and disagreements between Christians played out on social media for all to see, this book is very timely. With pastoral wisdom and practical application, Gavin Ortlund asserts that while disagreement in itself is not a problem, the way we conduct ourselves when we disagree can be hugely damaging. This book encourages us to be better listeners (one of the indelible marks of wisdom) and challenges us not to try and win the argument but rather to build trust with those with whom we may (continue to) disagree.

Carrie Sandom Director of Women's Ministry, The Proclamation Trust

Customer Reviews

5.00 stars Short, helpful, wise

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“Can you imagine how the church might be changed and the world might be impacted if we conducted our disagreements with the love of Christ?”

Short, helpful, and wise, I can’t think of a reason not to read this book. Even if you think you know what it’s going to say, it’s worth reminding ourselves of these things. To bring them to the forefront.

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5.00 stars A timely, necessary, and God-glorifying approach to disagreements.

  Reviewer Program Member

I’d be hard pressed to find a more timely book. With division running rampant across the globe, I highly recommend for everyone to read this book. Division is also found within the Church so Christians must be able to have healthy disagreements where relationships aren’t severed and the unity of the Church isn’t shattered.

Gavin writes with the wisdom of a seasoned pastor, the grace given to sinners, and the love of Christ. This a short, but impactful book. I ...

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4.00 stars Good read

 

An easy read with some very useful recommendations. Just need to put it into practice now!

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