Great quote in Tim Keller's new book, King's Cross, on the judgmentalism of not judging:
"The self-discovery person says 'The progressive, open-minded people are in and the judgmental bigots are out—and of course we're the open-minded ones.'
"In Western cosmopolitan culture there's an enormous amount of self-righteousness about self-righteousness. We progressive urbanites are so much better than people who think they're better than other people. We disdain those religious, moralistic types who look down on others…
"[This attitude] leads to as much superiority and self-righteousness as religion does."