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A Church That Cares (ebook)

A Church That Cares ebook

A Biblical Guide to Loving One Another Well

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About this book

You believe in the love of Christ, but does love for one another shape your church’s current culture—or the culture your church hopes to build?

Coming alongside you as a fellow church member and a biblical counselor, Helen Thorne-Allenson offers practical, realistic insight into contributing to a church culture of care.

You’ll consider…

  • Stories of care and of care needs that you recognize or relate to
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Specifications

Contributors:
Helen Thorne–Allenson
ISBN:
9781802544022
Format:
eBook
First published:
May 2026
Language:
English
Publisher:
The Good Book Company

Contents

Introduction

Part One: Principles of Caring Well
1. Why Caring Matters
2. What Genuine Care Looks Like
3. Why Caring Well Is Hard

Part Two: Practicalities of Caring Well
4. Dependence: Starting with Prayer
5. Community: The Requirement for Relationship
6. Attentiveness: How to Listen Well
7. Difference: Gifts and the Body
8. Example: Growth through Role-Modelling
9. Intentionality: It Takes a Church
10. Testimony: Sharing What God Has Done
11. Clarity: Setting a Vision
12. Opportunity: Caring for the Church in Preaching and Teaching
13. Wisdom: Establishing Safe Structures and Processes
14. Training: Developing Gifts

Conclusion: How Might This Look?

Endorsements

“Developing Christ-like care in our churches serves so many ambitions. It blesses those inside the church who receive that care, and it commends Christ to those outside the church who see the quality of the care being given. Helen Thorne-Allenson’s book is a faithful, biblical and comprehensive guide to the principles and practicalities of being a caring church. Broad in scope yet detailed in application, this book will help all our churches grow the kind of caring culture that is both glorifying and obedient to Christ.”

Steve Midgley Executive Director, Biblical Counselling UK; Author, Understanding Trauma

“Wanting a church that cares and having a church that cares are two different things. Helen both identifies the barriers to the practice of authentic care and offers realistic strategies to growing both the desire and the capability within yourself and others. Reading and discussing this book together would be an ideal way for your church to grow in care through inviting and encouraging every member to play their part.”

Andrew King Association Secretary, Grace Baptist Churches South East, UK

“In this accessible and practical book, Helen gives us a hope-filled and Bible-saturated yet realistic vision for churches that care well. I am confident it will be a stimulating and encouraging resource for anyone who wants to help their church grow in this vital area, whether a church leader or a member of the congregation. It is a great place to start!

Kerstin Bowsher Church Pastoral Worker, Grace Church, Porthcawl, Wales

“Helen skilfully and gently shows us, in a practical and accessible way, how we can build and nurture a culture of biblical care in our churches. I felt genuinely cared for as I read. It is a must-read for anyone passionate about helping people grow and pointing them to Jesus.”

Fernanda Curtis Women’s Worker, Christ Church Cambourne, near Cambridge, UK

“Love is patient, love is kind... and church is messy. This book gets that. Gospel-centred and pastorally sensitive, it speaks to churches of all shapes and sizes, and paints a picture of what it looks like when we learn how to love one another. It will challenge and encourage you in equal measure with lots of practical ideas for growing a culture of care. Well worth reading!”

Matt Beeby Rector, Saint James Gerrards Cross

“I am so grateful for this book and will be reading it regularly for years to come. It has challenged me to be more imaginative in prayer for my church, more diligent in my love for others, and more proactively collaborative in creating a culture of care. Helen’s writing is thoroughly biblical and wonderfully realistic; she consistently sets a vision for growth which is exciting, challenging and Christ-honouring, yet does so with humility and gentleness, using relatable examples.”

Eleanor Godwin Pastoral Worker, St Giles’ Church, Derby, UK

“Once again, Helen has written clearly and biblically with wisdom and compassion born of faithful gospel application in the nuances of everyday life and of the wealth of experience which that brings. Whether you read this by yourself, with a friend, in a small group or as a whole church, this book will help you live out Jesus’ command to love one another just as he loves us and, in doing so, to show the world that we are his disciples.”

Helen Morrow Assistant Pastor, Holy Trinity Church, West Bromwich, UK; Tutor, BCUK Foundations Course

“I loved this book! Helen’s understanding of people and experience of being part of a local church for many years are so evident throughout, and I frequently found myself thinking, ‘You know my heart, and you know my church’. She is wonderfully realistic about the challenges we face when it comes to loving one another well but left me feeling excited that we really can make progress, and that our culture can change, as we acknowledge our need and look to Christ.”

Andrea Trevenna Women’s worker at St Nicholas Sevenoaks, Kent; author of The Heart of Singleness.

“Wise, practical, challenging and motivating, Helen’s book has fuelled my love for my local church and spurred me on to love others well. Anyone who serves in any way in their church should read this book. The wonderfully rich application of Scripture, alongside ‘how-tos’, FAQs, training outlines and lived examples, invites discussion, reflection, personal change and action. I can’t wait to read it with others in the ministry contexts I serve in and see how God uses it to change our hearts, our prayers and our church care.”

Esther Lynch Irish Church Missions churches, Dublin; Team Lead, Equipped to Care, Ireland

“Helen draws on a wealth of experience in helping both individuals and churches grow in their ability to care well for one another. Each chapter is accessible yet packed full of biblical encouragement, practical application, inspiring stories and challenging questions. Aimed at equipping both leaders and congregation members, this book is an invaluable resource, whether read individually or within a small group, ministry team or whole church.”

Dr Joanna Jackson Director of Counselling, All Souls Counselling Service

“How different are our Christian communities? Surely an acid test is how well we love and care for our brothers and sisters, and particularly for those who are in pain or vulnerable. Helen has given us such a helpful book to encourage us to do this like Jesus—thoughtfully and humbly. I wish I’d had this book years ago. There is much wisdom to help me, and the church family, to care like Jesus more and more.”

Rachel Meynell Minister for Pastoral Care, St Mary’s Church Maidenhead, Berkshire, UK

Customer Reviews

4.00 stars practical, helpful and challenging

 

(Review written for 'A Church That Cares')

This is a practical and honest book. On the face of it there seems to be no new information but it clearly throws a spotlight on the functional way of what being part of the local body of Christ means in everyday language. It is very easy in the course of daily living to gloss over these basic essentials for maintaining the health of the the local fellowship. From time to time it is necessary, helpful and encouraging to review how we are all called to live in Christ's community. The book is readable and clear, and easy to grasp. ...

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5.00 stars Great to jumpstart a mentorship program

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(Review written for 'A Church That Cares')

Our church is starting a mentorship program this fall, and one of the ways we’re helping women prepare is by walking through why Christian community is important, what it looks like, and how they can actively be part of it.
A Church That Cares by Helen Thorne-Allenson has been the perfect resource for accomplishing all of the above. I originally picked up this book as part of a book review program, but I now plan to use it with our women on Wednesday nights. Here’s why:
The chapters are short, concise, and easy to read and understand (about 15–20 minutes ...

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4.00 stars Very Practical

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(Review written for 'A Church That Cares')

Thank you to the publisher and author for my gifted copy. All my opinions are my own.

This was a great book that gave practical applications for the church. I love how the author listed all the "One Another's in the book. There were some sections I felt that were more written towards pastors, but church members could still glean some wisdom. It was a quick read, but full of wonderful information.

We're so glad that you found this book to be practical! Thanks for sharing this review, Annie!

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