“Why do you come to church?” I asked one Sunday a few years ago. They may not have been particularly old but I felt sure each child would have their reasons and I was intrigued to hear what they might be. Each of them had made a profession of faith, appropriate to their age – they certainly weren’t on the fringes – so I was curious to discover what they thought being part of church was all about.
And so it went on …... continue reading
One of my favourite titles for God is The Promise Keeper. I use it often when writing for children, and The Promise Maker too. Because the Lord both makes and keeps promises.
The Old Testament is infused with God's promises to send the Christ, the anointed one, His chosen King. And in the New Testament we meet those faithful believers who are waiting for that promise to be kept. One of them is Simeon.
Simeon trusted God to send His Christ, and was faithfully awaiting that day. But the Lord, in His grace, also made an extra promise, just for Simeon - that Simeon himself would see this Christ with his own eyes. God didn't have to make this promise. It was a loving, generous gift to an old man.... continue reading
It's been a great service. Matthew 28:18-20 has been read. The preacher has reminded the congregation of the awesome gift of grace that Christ has lavished on his people. Forgiven people have praised God for the fact they have been cleansed, washed whiter than snow. It's a truth more powerful than any fairy story. It's a wonderful narrative that has the ultimate happy ending for those who are in Christ. And then it comes. The call to action. The call to get out there and tell others of God's wonderful mercy.
Instantly, the congregation divides into 7 camps. There's...... continue reading
We got around to 1 Timothy 2 v 8-15 at homegroup recently, and it was an educating experience for me as a leader. The passage has been a battleground for alternative interpretations over the last 30 years, so I was interested to discover how influenced my group members have been by these views, when our church's preaching and practice has been uncompromisingly complementarian (women and men are equal, but have different roles) for the last 30 years.
We had a great time talking about how men should pray, not fight. We had a good discussion about the particular issues the women in the group faced on the clothing v godliness issue. I spent a long time on these two questions, secretly hoping that the discussion over verses 11-15 would be squeezed a little shorter.
We had 20 minutes of slightly confusing discussion, which raised more questions than it was able to answer, but my issue as a leader was: how do I land the study in an encouraging and substantial place, rather than leave group members going home with their heads reeling in confusion. Three big points occurred to me:... continue reading
Her hands trembled as she typed the words. She took a breath and paused before pressing "enter". But soon her question was visible to all ..."Do you like me?"
She had been bullied at school that day. She had been bullied the night before over social media. And within minutes the barrage of abuse began again. "As if". "I hate you". "No-one will ever like you". The comments came thick and fast. Some in English, some in the new text speak that those of us in our 40s are largely too old to comprehend, but all laced with hate. Soon she was in tears. Soon she was curled up on her bed repeating the words of torment to herself: no-one will ever like me.
It's not new for teenagers to be cruel to one another. It's not new for human beings to be mean. That has been going on since the fall of Genesis 3. It's moderately new for that cruelty to take place in cyberspace - a medium that never sleeps, never leaves space for respite. But what's really new is the way a small number of young people are using cyberspace to induce a context for virtual self-harm.... continue reading
It's a recurrent problem for those who lead Bible study groups and church services. People arrive with their heads full of stuff: their personal problems; a crisis with a friend; money worries; the pressures of a hard day at work; frustrations with children; the long-term problems that are a constant weight to our souls.
It's not uncommon for someone to say, or the leader to pray something like this:
Lord, help us to put aside the distractions of today, so that we can focus on you...
It sounds like it should be the right thing to do. After all, distractions are … well … distracting! And aren't we at church or homegroup to focus on God's Word and worship him? Sounds like the right thing to do, until you read the psalms and understand the lives God wants us to lead. The book of Psalms is not just a personal prayer book for our private moments - but a songbook for people to sing aloud as we approach the Lord. Take these examples of typical songs on the hymn sheet at the temple:... continue reading
What professions lead to the unhappiest people? It may have shocked you to discover that Ministers of religion are the happiest profession (see blog on Tuesday). But if the biggest driver for happiness and job satisfaction is interaction with people, it should be less surprising to see the bottom five. The interesting thing here is that they are, in general, much higher paid, and have a much higher social status, but they don't deliver the goods in terms of happiness:
5. Technical Specialist
4. Senior Web Developer
3. Product Manager
2. Director of Sales and Marketing: I guess the issue here is that social interaction in sales and marketing is dominated by wanting to get the sale. And of course, the pressure of meeting those targets.
1. Director of Information Technology: often high earning, but the pressure point for anything that goes wrong. People complain and are frustrated when it doesn't work - but do not appreciate how difficult it is to make it work properly.... continue reading
What professions lead to the happiest people? It was a simple question that delivered a surprising result from the General Social Survey produced by the National Organization for Research at the University of Chicago.
It seems the big driver for happiness and job satisfaction is interaction with people. Here's the top five - be prepared for a surprise when you reach no 1:
5. Special education teachers: If you don’t care about money, a job as special education teacher might be a happy profession. The wages are low, but the sense of satisfaction and happiness is high.... continue reading
A Christian need never feel harassed, nor experience helplessness. Never.
Why?
Because a Christian is never without a shepherd.
Life is full of harassed-inspiring challenges and busy-ness, and helplessness-inducing events and unknowns. It’s what Jesus noticed about people as he travelled round, preaching and healing; it’s what aroused his compassion for them:
“He had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” (Matthew 9 v 36)
If you don’t have a “shepherd”—someone to rely on who is in control, who knows what they are doing, and cares about you as their own possession—then you’re going to know the feeling of being harassed and helpless, because you’re thrown back on your own abilities, and life is so often too big or confusing for our minds and strength to handle. If you don’t have a shepherd, you will be harassed and helpless.
And so Jesus gave his famous command to his disciples—the harvest field is vast, the workers are few, and therefore to pray for workers, and go out as workers (9 v 37 – 10 v 2).... continue reading
I'm sure many of us have been praying for the atrocities we have seen in the news in recent weeks. The shootings in the states, the blasts in the Kenyan shopping centre, the suicide bombings in Pakistan - the pictures on our TV screens have been horrifying. There have been moments when many of us have been close to tears and churches and individuals around the globe have been interceding for the victims and their families.
But our memories are often short. Within weeks, if not days, our prayers often turn to the next crisis and - unless we have friends who are directly impacted by the events - we rarely revisit the needs of those in news stories past. It's easy for us to forget. But those who survive the atrocities, never do. Recently, I spoke to one survivor of a suicide bombing that took place 3 years ago. He's a Muslim who is currently exploring the claims of Christ - many of the events of the day and his life have been left deliberately vague.... continue reading
