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Self-harm - how it functions

Helen Thorne | May 1, 2012

So what role does self-harm play in people’s lives? It tends to function in one of 4 ways:

  • Punishment
    Sometimes people feel guilt or shame. They’re overwhelmed either by the fact that they have done something terrible or the feeling that they have (even though they haven’t). Hurting yourself can lessen the feelings of guilt because it gives the impression that ā€˜justice is being done’ as punishment is meted out.
  • Cleansing
    Other people may feel dirty inside. They have a swell of negative emotions within them that they can’t seem to get rid of. By putting a hole in their skin, the bad stuff can, symbolically, be allowed to escape and, for a while at least, the pressure of negative thoughts subsides.
  • Control
    At times, life can feel completely out of control. Other people – be they family, teachers, employers or even God seem to dictate how each moment is spent and how each emotion is expressed. Some people use self-harm to reclaim control … they may not be able to control their diaries but they can control what happens to a small patch of their skin.
  • Sensation creation or depression
    Sometimes people struggle with the pain of life. They try to suppress it through ingesting an excess of painkillers to literally numb sensations… Other people feel numb, such people may cause themselves pain just so they can feel something. No-one wants to go through life feeling nothing at all …

All these techniques help people keep on living in a world full of pain. But they are notgood solutions or long-term solutions to the effects on a fallen world. As Christians we have the awesome gospel message of the Son of God who took the punishment we deserve, to wash us whiter than snow so we can follow the loving, sovereign King of the universe and enjoy life and life in all its fullness. Over the next few posts we are going to explore how we can better understand those who self-harm and support them with these truths as they recover.

   

Self-harm Series

Self-harm - what is it?

Helen Thorne | April 30, 2012

It can seem a bit unfathomable: the fact that rational, intelligent human beings at times choose to cause themselves harm. People often ask ā€œwhy?ā€ because on the surface it makes no sense. But the reality is that self-harm need not be a mystery. It is understandable. It is a privilege to stand alongside those who are struggling. And those who are currently hurting themselves can be confident that there is a way out.

So this week on the blog we’re going to dip a toe into what self-harm is, how it functions and how we as Christians can support the many people who struggle.... continue reading

   

Self-harm Series

Congratulations!

Helen Thorne | April 30, 2012

We've been having quite an exciting time over the past few days!:

Huge congratulations to the Good Book Company's Logistics Manager, Tom Beard who tied the knot on Saturday to the lovely Katie. It was a fantastic, Jesus-centred service ... and a rare opportunity to see some of the Good Book lads wearing suits (so smart!).

The ladies of the company weren't looking too shabby either!

And just a few hours later, it was congratulations to one of our directors, Tom Seidler who got engaged to the wonderful Rowina!

And last but not least ... many congratulations to Senior Editor, Carl Laferton and his wife, Lizzie who are now parents of a beautiful baby boy.

What a wonderful time!

Let them give thanks to the LORD for his unfailing love and his wonderful deeds for men. - Psalm 107:31

   

Relevant News

Fighting the Monday feeling

Helen Thorne | April 30, 2012

Your love, O LORD. reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies. Your righteousness is like the mighty mountains, your justice like the great deep. O LORD, you preserve both man and beast. How priceless is your unfailing love!
Psalm 36:5-7

   

Fighting the Monday Feeling

50% off a fantastic evangelistic book!

David Berkeley | April 27, 2012

This week we're doing Naked God at 50% off! This makes it even more affordable to give away. It's written for those asking the tough questions and wanting the truth about God. We think it's great but don't just take our word for it......

'Challenging, enjoyable and biblically faithful. I'm delighted that Naked God invites its readers to examine the naked truth behind their own beliefs, then moves on to a compelling and persuasive explanation of the person and work of Jesus Christ.'
- Rico Tice, Associate Minister (Evangelism), All Souls Church, Langham Place, London, UK

'I really like this book. Martin Ayers not only gives excellent answers to important apologetic questions but he also gives compelling reasons why the indifferent sceptic should think of asking them in the first place. He writes directly into the life and experience of a thinking unbeliever and commends Christ both by his attractive presentation of the gospel and his portrayal of the bleak consequences of an alternative naturalistic worldview. I am already thinking of people I could give it to.'
- Vaughan Roberts, Rector, St Ebbe's Church, Oxford, UK

Simply use the code ng50 at checkout to get the 50% off!

   

Best Buy Friday

Christianity in the News

Phil Grout | April 26, 2012

Boris Johnson faces legal action over banned anti-gay bus adverts

Judge declares Christian radio ad 'political'

Russell Crowe cast as Noah in Darren Aronofsky film

From Watergate to redemption

Archbishop of Canterbury to lose worldwide Anglican role under traditionalist plans

Are evangelical Christians on another planet?

   

Christianity in the News

Superhuman Powers, Human Flaws

Martin Cole | April 25, 2012
Avengers Assemble Cert: 12A

It's that familar story I'm sure we've all experienced: evil Norse legend teams up with equally evil alien race to attack Earth. Naturally, the U.S. government gathers a crack team of superheroes, monsters and scientists to thwart the tyrant and his hoardes. Okay, so the premise may be an unfamiliar and fanciful one, but the emotions, frailties and problems at the heart of this super movie are very human and recognisable...... continue reading

On to a Good Thing

Phil Grout | April 24, 2012
1. Visual Theology - The Fruit of the Spirit

An infographic from Tim Challies on the Fruit of the Spirit.

2. The Book of Romans in 45 Tweets

Jonathan Parnell of Desiring God attempts to summarise the book of Romans in just 45 tweets!

3. John Cleese Reading C.S. Lewis's "The Screwtape Letters"

Listen to "The Screwtape Letters" read by John Cleese.

4. 5 Things to Pray for Your Congregation As You Prepare to Lead Worship

Kristen Gilles gives 5 helpful prayer points for church music groups.

5. And finally…

Introducing our video of the week from Bible By The Beach. Tickets are still available for this year's event in Eastbourne between Friday 4th May and Monday 7th May 2012.





Found something that you think should make it on to the On to a Good Thing round-up? Send it to: ontoagoodthing@thegoodbook.co.uk
   

On to a Good Thing

Children's thoughts on exploring the Bible

Alison Mitchell | April 24, 2012

One of the joys of being the Children’s Editor at The Good Book Company is the letters, cards, pictures and emails sent in by our youngest readers. These are mostly under 11s who are reading the Bible with XTB (eXplore The Bible). I thought you’d enjoy a few of their comments (unedited by me except for removing names):

  • (A 7-year-old) I am reading the bible wih xtb notes and last night the notes said that if I sent you my favourite bible verse, you would kindly send me a pencil. I love the promise in genesis 12 verse 2 when God says to Abraham I will make you into a great nation and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing". I like it because it shows that we can trust God and what he says is true. I really enjoy the xtb notes. Thank you!
  • (6-year-old) My favourite verse in the bible is John 3v16. I like it because it say's why God sent Jesus and it is the most famous verse in the bible. Please could you send me a pencil - I love doing XTB.
  • I am 8 years old and I live in Scotland. I liked day 1 best because it had Lots of pages to do When I had nothing to do.I am looking forward to the next book.I dident understand my Bible because It was an old fashon vetion.I liked your xtb so much I think that nothing could make It better.I would love it if you replied but you dont Have to.
  • (6-year-old) Mathew 28;20. I like it because if I get scared he will always be with me.
  • (7-year-old) alison, could you please tell me how to tell my friend's about Jesus?
  • (9-year-old) Thank you for the XTB for I am going onto "Explore" now as I have been right through XTB. XTB has been really helpful to me.
  • (Three children after reading my note in XTB asking them to check that what I write is correct – just as the Bereans checked what Paul told them, Acts 17v11) We are the ______ family. There are three girls in our family – ______, who is nine; ______, who is seven; and ______, who is four. There is also our Mom and Dad. We live in California. We love Table Talk and XTB. Today we read about the Bereans, and we saw your note. We thought we would write to you ourselves to say thank you for writing these Table Talks and XTBs so we can learn about the Bible with our Mom and Dad. ______’s favorite part is that it helps people become Christians – she is trying to become one. _____ says your books make the Bible exciting. _____ doesn’t do XTB yet, but she loves to answer questions from Table Talk when she’s done a good job eating her dinner. ______ would like to ask ā€œAre you a Christian? If so, how did you become one? I’m very interested because I’m trying to become one but I’m having a hard time at it.ā€ The ______ parents would like to say ā€œThank you so much for your work. We have 2.5 Bible degrees and several generations of pastors in our combined family heritage, but regular family worship time with our kids is still so hard! Your materials make it easy, and it’s the most gospel-centered, Christ-focussed we’ve come across. Thank you!ā€
  • (From a mum) On busy evenings - despite her love of stories - when given the choice of Roald Dahl or XTB, XTB wins each time.

I have files of letters from XTB readers going back nearly 12 years. Some of them will be parents themselves now. It’s great hearing from children who love reading their Bible and getting to know God better through it – and who want to tell their friends about Jesus too. What a privilege.

Introducing the Good Book Bloggers

Helen Thorne | April 23, 2012

Over the next few Mondays we thought we’d introduce you to The Good Book Blog team. A little glimpse behind the screen to the people who type away week by week … First:

Helen Thorne, Blog Editor

An unlikely member of the blog team (given that a year ago she’d never actually read a blog post let alone written one and has a general disposition of extreme techno-phobia), Helen oversees the day to day running of the blog at Good Book. Her main role is to bring order out of the many and varied ideas that seem to spontaneously ooze from the creative team members!

A Christian since 1989, she’s worked at Good Book since 1999 which officially makes her an ā€œold-timerā€. She has resigned – twice – but keeps coming back and now accepts there is no escape from these hallowed walls.

As well as looking after the blog, she manages the Open Bible Institute – Good Book’s distance learning college. It’s a role she loves because it combines her passion for theology with the opportunity to get to know at least some of the 900 students enrolled on the courses.

When not at work, Helen attends Christ Church Kingston where, among other things, she plays the piano most Sundays. She’s a trustee of Capital Youthworks a Bible-centred youth work charity which runs events like Sorted. She’s active in local politics and is attempting to do a doctorate in the field of teaching parables (though it’s probably not a good idea to ask her how that’s going just now!).

But Helen is probably best known for her irrational love of all things cute … She is regularly mocked for her over-zealous affection for the 3 felines (psycho-cat, dim-cat and barge-puss) with which she shares her home … and rumour has it that it is only a matter of time before she buys her first micro-pig.

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